Our Minister & Staff

Reverend Mary Gelfand, Summer Minister

Mary Gelfand is an Interfaith Minister ordained by the Chaplaincy Institute of Maine (CHIME) in 2013.  She is no stranger to First Parish as she served her chaplaincy internship here and acted as part-time minister during Rev. Christina’s last sabbatical.  As a Unitarian Universalist, she has served in both local and national leadership roles, including five years as national board president of the Covenant of Unitarian Universalist Pagans.  A practicing Pagan, her spiritual life is rooted in the cycles and seasons of the natural world which are so abundantly visible in New England.  She reads and teaches about feminist theology, the Great Goddess, mysticism, and the mysteries of Tarot.  As a fiber artist, she enjoys weaving tapestry and knitting gifts for strangers and friends.

If you would like to reach Mary, please contact office@firstparishportland.org to schedule time.

Toben Cooney Callnan, Director of Faith Formation

Toben Cooney-Callnan is our kind-hearted, good-humored and grounded Director of Faith Formation.  He first taught at First Parish from 2012 to 2014 and connected deeply with the families here, which led him to return to become our Director.  Driven by creating connection, he is passionate about creating a space where kids and their families come together and talk about the huge possibilities of spirited human existence.

Having studied Elementary Education and English, Toben loves working with children and he is absolutely built for it.  He is kind, compassionate and fun and is always coming up with creative and interesting ways to work with the folks of First Parish.  Toben is an amateur poet and his most prized material possession is a signed copy of “Dog Songs” by Mary Oliver.

You can reach Toben at dre@firstparishportland.org.

Scott Wheatley, Music Director

Scott Wheatley joined us at First Parish at the beginning of 2017. He feels that he was called to First Parish and he loves church music because he can feel the joy that music brings to the church community and to all who are exposed to music.

Originally from Kansas, he received his Undergraduate degree from the University of Missouri and his Graduate degree from the University of South Florida. When Scott is not here at First Parish, he is teaching at USM.

You can reach Scott at musicdirector@firstparishportland.org.

Laurie Hasty, Membership Coordinator

Laurie Hasty is a third generation UU. She came to First Parish as a teenager when her father was called to be this church’s minister. She was married in our Meeting House and has raised her children in this congregation. In December, she coordinates our historic Nativity Pageant. Laurie believes deeply that personal connections are essential to growing a community within our church and healing our world. Laurie lives with her husband, Benson Gray, in the woods on the northwest corner of Falmouth where they enjoy reading, gardening, hiking, cross-country skiing, and canoeing. After a winding path of volunteer activities, elementary school teaching, and arts management, Laurie is now back to her passion of painting in her studio. Please say hello to her at Coffee Hour!

You can reach Laurie at membership@firstparishportland.org.

Hannah Gilman, Congregational Administrator

Hannah joined the First Parish staff in March 2021.  She lives locally in Portland, but is originally from China, Maine.  Hannah felt called to First Parish because she was looking for a career where she could help build and strengthen a community that is welcoming to all.  She believes that we are all connected to each other and to nature, and honoring that connection is of the utmost importance.

Hannah received her Bachelors in Elementary Education from the University of Maine in Orono.  When she is not in the First Parish office, you can find her outside in nature, reading, traveling, spending time with her family, or volunteering for Humanity and Hope United.

You can reach Hannah at office@firstparishportland.org.

Moe Blanchard, Sexton

Our Sexton, Moe Blanchard, has been with First Parish since 2002. A Portland, Maine native, he is a valuable member of our staff. Together with various committees, volunteers, and paid hourly workers, Moe ensures the care and upkeep of our lovely historic meeting house and memorial gardens. He enjoys working with the Staff as well as the members of First Parish in Portland and is happy to help where he can.

Moe is caring, helpful and honest. And he makes the world’s best popcorn and coordinates the bountiful display of goodies for our coffee hours!

If you have questions or requests for Moe, please direct them to office@firstparishportland.org.